Nursery pics!

I have my new camera, so I finally got some pictures of Lauren's room.

This shot is taken from the doorway...



These are the sheers I got at Pottery Barn Kids. If you enlarge the photo you can see the detail much better...








I guess I need to stop clothes shopping now! ;)



Now that the room is done, I find myself wandering in there a lot to look around or just sit in the rocker. I also find myself going through the closet and picturing Lauren is all those cute outfits. I'm really glad we waited to get the room set up because I don't think I could have handled endless months and years of having it done. As it is now, we still have months ahead of us...but hopefully not too many!

Shopping cart cover...

I've had my eye on these KozyPal shopping cart covers for a long time. I found the site over a year ago and had it bookmarked since then. I think it's finally time to go ahead and order one. These covers also work on those wooden restaurant high chairs. Since you all know that I LOVE shopping, Lauren needs a way to look fashionable while in the cart. With the fun fabrics they offer, I think she'll be the fashionista of Tarjay!

I'm torn between a few different fabric prints...

Disco Dots Flamingo...


Disco Dots Sorbet...


Boho Blossom Clementine...


Carnival Bloom...


These covers have different options so you can customize it just the way you want. I'm going to add the sewn in bottle/sippy cup holder. Does anyone already have a Kozypal? If so, I'd love to hear how you like it.

29 month LIDversary...

Yup, this past Thursday marks 29 months of waiting, hoping and praying.

I think that just about speaks for itself...not much else to say about that.

Well, after years of faithful service our old 3 megapixel Canon Powershot camera has bitten the dust. Joe and I have finally decided on a replacement and went out in search of one today. After we came up dry at several electronics stores, we ended up ordering it at a camera store and having it shipped. We are getting the Canon TX1...it's a hybrid digital camera and camcorder in one. It's 7.1 megapixel with a 10x optical zoom and image stabilization, which should greatly reduce the number of blurry photos.

Once we get it and have a chance to check it out, I'll let you all know how we like it. For those of you still looking for a new camera and camcorder for the China trip, I'll post sample photos and video. By the way, the TX1 is $499, which is basically the same price as a standard point and shoot digital camera and a standard definition camcorder combined.

Surprise shower...

We have known a small group of local waiting families for over two years now. Since three of the families now have their children, we haven't been getting together monthly like we used to. Well this past Saturday we got together at Kim and Scott's place. They have twin girls from China and Kim is due to have a baby boy in September! Here she is with the girls, Jenna & Jadyn.


We decided to make the get together a surprise baby shower for Kim, and brought gifts, cupcakes and favors. She was quite surprised!



I had SO much fun playing with the kids. In this photo we are in the "lion's den" at the top of the stairs and the "daddy lion" aka Scott kept sneaking around the corner and roaring at the girls. They would scream and hide behind me when Scott came crawling up the stairs. They were having a ball...


Here's a couple of pics of all the girls. I love how Ava is playing peek-a-boo...hiding in the first pic and peeking in the next.




After a whole evening of playing with the kids, I am even more ready to go and get Lauren. We can't wait to have our own little one at home!

I've been tagged...

by Karen (my China travel buddy) and Dana to write 6 words that describe how I am feeling right now, and then tag 5 others. Well, here it goes...

1. Anticipation of being a momma for the first time. I don't think I could ever describe to those not waiting for their first child just how it feels. It's a very strange feeling living this long of a time (fast approaching 29 months) in sort of a holding pattern, not really knowing when your life is about to be changed forever.
   
   
2. Anxiety about if we will be good parents and if we are getting too old to truly give Lauren the life she deserves. We never wanted to be the "older" parents and that's exactly the way it turned out. I think about how old we will be when she graduates high school and hope Joe isn't walking her down the wedding aisle with a walker! ;)
   
   
3. Accomplished because we worked on the nursery over the weekend and it's pretty much done except for a couple of little things. I'll post some photos soon. It turned out really pretty and I find myself walking in there almost every time I pass the room just to look around.
   
   
4. Happy about the possibility of having our referral and laying eyes on our daughter for the first time. I SO hope this will happen before the end of the year!
   
   
5. Lazy about getting non-baby related projects done around the house. Also lazy about getting out of bed in the morning. I've had a HARD time getting to work by 7am this week! The Starbucks drive thru has been my best friend.
   
   
6. Grateful for all I have...a great hubby (aka Mr. Wonderful or Cabana Joe), a great family, awesome friends, and all my Blogville buddies. I am so grateful for the on-line adoption community...I don't think I'd have my sanity (or what's left of it) at this point without everyone!

A measly 22 calendar days...

is all that separates us from our referral at this point. It seems oh so close when you look at the calendar on my sidebar, but in reality it's still not soon enough for me!

China Adoption forecast has just updated their site and now they are estimating a referral date in November for us. They had been estimating October for the past couple of months.

I hate to say that I'm quickly losing...

of traveling this year.

I'm so NOT ready to face Christmas #3 (#4 if you count paperchasing) without our daughter! Can you tell I'm in one of those "this just sucks" kind of moods this evening?

It was an itsy bitsy teenie weinie...

yellow polka dot bikini, that she wore for the first time today...
I know that poor Ruby looks pretty silly in that bikini! We were at our friend, Linda Marie's place on the 4th hanging out and relaxing at the pool and we were also doggie sitting for Christine who was on the beach in San Diego. She laughs at me since I like to buy cute little outfits for Ruby, so I couldn't help but dress her up and e-mail her a photo of what's going on while she's not here. Christine, I promise that when we get Lauren, I'll quit dressing Ruby! ;)

We had a really nice and relaxing day lounging by the pool and eating great food. We had two bar-b-que smokers cranked up. Joe smoked some pork ribs...

and Linda made some bacon wrapped shrimp...

we also had sweet corn...

and potato salad with sour cream and bacon...

Oh, and don't forget the sangria with fresh strawberries, raspberries and peaches...

After dinner, Linda surprised us with these...

We released ladybugs in honor of Lauren. How sweet is that? I loved it.

The little ladies quickly made themselves at home in Linda's garden.

Linda, thank you SO much for this sweet gesture. It's really nice to know that our friends are also thinking of Lauren and looking forward to us bringing her home.

The 3rd time's a charm...

or so they say. Well it was true for me today. I went in for my 3rd, and hopefully last, fingerprinting today.

The first time we went it took 4-5 hours, the 2nd time was about an hour and this time only 15 minutes!!! I was in and out in a flash...a banner day for the USCIS.

It's that time again...

...so let the roller coaster ride begin!

There were rumors late last week of packages on the way from China to US agencies, but it seems these packages contained travel approvals for families with referrals waiting to travel.

Now the rumors are that matching is still in progress, which means that we probably won't know the next cut off until next week. With the holiday on Friday, I can't imagine the agencies will have time to receive packages this week and make calls.

So, here we are again on the monthly coaster ride. How far will they get this month? It's any one's guess right now. With about 27 days from our LID, we sure are hoping for a big batch. It would be fabulous if they can get through the rest of January! Come on CCAA, we know you have it in you since it's been done before!

Nursery Decorating

With our referral getting closer and closer, I've been having fun buying things for the nursery and for the bathroom we are decorating for Lauren. Check out the fun things I found here.

Also, I'd like to say thank you for the comments I got on the bookshelf bins. I decided to keep the wooden bins, but I exchanged two of the bright pink bins for soft pink. Since a few of you advised this, I'm going to keep the bins on the bottom shelf so they aren't falling on Lauren as she pulls them out. Also, I got a little concerned about baskets breaking and leaving sharp pieces of wicker behind. Thanks to Mary-Mia for putting that fear in my mind! ;)

Opinions needed on storage boxes...

I picked up these bright pink storage boxes at Target to go in the bookcase in Lauren's room. Now I can't decide if I like them. I've been moving them all around the bookcase trying to decide if I want to keep them...




If you have something like these at home, are they handy for putting small toys in? Are they user friendly for little ones? They are made of wood and I'm wondering if baskets would be better.

Time for vacation??

An anonymous commenter on my last post asked the following question...

I'm confused. Why would you be burning vacation time when you are quickly approaching referral/travel? You are going to want a couple days off prior to referral and prior to your trip to do last-minute stuff. Trust me, in the days before my referral I was pacing around my house bleaching everything in sight and tossing things in the garbage like a MANIAC. :0) And before travel, I was packing like a loon. Have fun in Cali, but save some days when your brain will be mush and you want to nest.

Best wishes

Yes, I totally understand that I'll need some days off prior to travel and I plan on taking 3 days to a week off before our flight.

Even though our referral is quickly approaching, I've worked for my company for almost 23 years now and accumulate more vacation that I use. I accumulate almost 5 weeks a year now and have almost 500 hours of vacation leave on the books. They only let us roll over 450hours at the end of the year, so I'll have to burn about 100 hours by the end of the year. I know, poor me! ;)

I also have over 800 hours of sick time on the books, which will cover my entire 4 month maternity leave with 160 hours to spare.

With this said, I have plenty of vacation time to have a little fun before we get our referral. I'll definitely be taking some last minute time off before we travel because I know I'll be panicked and running around like a fool before we travel. I'll need some time to pull everything together before our flight. Anonymous, I know my head will totally be mush at the end too and I definitely have a plan in place. Thanks for looking out for me! :)

Weekend trip...

We had a great time at Disneyland despite the heatwave in California at the time. Here I am in the It's a Bugs Life theater with my "bug eye" 3-D glasses.

I don't know what the temperature was on Saturday, but it had to be close to 100 degrees with stickiness in the air that knocked us out! Since we live in AZ, we're used to extreme heat, but the humidity could kill you! We felt wet the whole time. While waiting in line for the water ride in California Adventure, the older women in front of us got over heated, her knees buckled and down she went. We ended up calling first aid up to help her. We did end up making the best of the day and squeezed a lot of stuff in despite the weather.

On the way to Disneyland, we stopped at the Cabazon outlet malls outside Palm Springs and I picked up some cute things for Lauren and a few other things.

I picked up these cute little shoes in the Carter's store. I have no idea when Lauren will wear a size 6...does anyone have a clue?


I got this cute little shirt, dress and swimsuit cover up on the clearance rack at Ralph Lauren...




I picked up these place mats and pillows for our kitchen/family room at the Crate and Barrel outlet...



As many of you know, I love handbags. I didn't find any that I absolutely had to have, but I did find a couple of accessories at Coach and a wallet at Kate Spade.

I had my friend, Miyoung, along with me at the Coach store. She works Coach retail part-time and knows which items are from the retail store and which are made for the factory stores. These two items are originally from retail and I got them at a great price. The wallet (on the left) was originally $219 and I got it for $87 and the address/phone book jacket was originally $159 and it was only $63. I love them both...


I also picked up this Kate Spade wallet, which has a zipper all around and plenty of room inside...


All in all, we had a great trip. The best part is that I'm on vacation from work this week since I have a mega-ton of vacation time to burn before the end of the year. I'm looking forward to just doing whatever I want for the rest of the week!

Weekend trip...

I'm heading off tomorrow morning for a girls turnaround trip to Disneyland.

We're heading out early and doing some outlet mall shopping at Cabazon on the way to Anaheim. Saturday we'll be in the parks (we have a one day hopper pass) until we drop and then we get up Sunday and head home. It will be super quick, but lots of fun too.

I'm excited that 42% of those who voted in my poll from Wednesday say we'll have our referral in October. I'm REALLY hoping that's the case! It shouldn't be too long now until we start hearing rumors about the next batch. Nothing like living for the monthly rumors...what have our lives come to?? ;)

What's your best guess?

Opinion Polls & Market Research

28th LIDversary...

Yup, it's 28 months today. Yes, that's 2 years and 4 months of waiting and hoping. There has GOT to be a light at the end of this tunnel and lately we have been seeing a glimmer of that light as our DTC friends have started to get their referrals. Yes, our time IS actually coming and hopefully this year.

This and that...

Hope everyone had a great Father's Day weekend. I had a nice, long chat on the phone with my dad. He lives in NY, so we don't see each other often but I love catching up on the phone.

Joe woke up yesterday morning to a card from our furbaby, Lucy. I also got him a daddy-to-be card...


and an adorable book called Daddy Hugs by my favorite children's book author, Karen Katz. I can't wait to watch him read this book to Lauren.


As we get closer to referral I can see Joe getting more and more excited. He's been pretty laid back during this whole process, but lately he's been more interested in looking at travel photos on bloggy friends' blogs and referral pics. Also, we were in Target over the weekend and HE actually wanted to go see what was on the clearance rack in the baby clothes section!

On another note, look what I got in the mail today...


This totally adorable headband is a thank you gift from Emily (her blog is password protected), who I "met" through my Yahoo DTC group. She is in China right now and will have Ellie Lu in her arms very soon!

It's in the mail...

Our fingerprint clearance expires at the end of June, so I just mailed off a request for us to be re-fingerprinted.

At least this time it should be free, which saves us $160. When we got re-printed the second time around and renewed our I-171H, it was right before they started giving one freebie renewal.

I still can't figure out why they need to re-print us instead of just running the prints we already have on file. I understand why the clearance expires...I guess they need to be sure we haven't turned into homicidal maniacs over the past 18 months. Actually, this wait can flip a person out a bit. ;)

Our homestudy expires in early November, so we'll need to get started on renewing that. Unfortunately, this is NOT free. Our homestudy agency (different from our adoption agency) really makes out on these renewals...they charge $600!! Can you believe that? Had we known that there might be paperwork to renew during this process, we would have shopped around for this service.

Our I-171H expires on March 10, 2009, and it needs to be in effect during travel and until we get back home with Lauren. Once it gets a little bit closer, we'll decide if we need to renew this or now. I'm curious what my waiting bloggy friends are doing about this. Does anyone else have a Feb LID with an I-171H expiring in March?

The happy dance...

is what I've been doing since it seems we have at least an 8 day batch!! It hasn't yet been confirmed whether they got through January 20 or 22nd, but I'll take it either way! The larger batch this month came by surprise after so many tiny batches and is such a welcome change!

To celebrate, I'm gearing up on the nursery and picked up some decor at Pottery Barn Kids over the weekend. Check it our here.

It was great to cross off some days on my little sidebar calendar. Only 23 or 25 calendar days until our LID, depending on how far they got! This is such an exciting time with bloggy friends getting their referrals and others getting SO close!

Maybe a big batch??

Rumor has it that referrals may get through January 22nd. That's 10 days and sounds WAY too good to be true. Wouldn't it be great though??!!

I'm trying not to get my hopes up, but it's really hard not to be excited. On the Rumor Queen forum there is someone with a January 22nd LID that is saying her agency told them they should have a referral by next week. I find it strange that an agency would make these types of promises before referrals actually get here...I know my agency doesn't do this AT ALL. No promises...no way, no how.

On another note, I was flipping through my pocket calendar today and realized that I hadn't written in our LIDversaries for the rest of this year. I got to August 17th and found myself writing 30 months...that's 2.5 years! At that point my eyes filled with tears and I just couldn't go any further. Who would have ever imagined it would take this long. September through December will have to just stay blank for now.

I also wanted to mention that I got to meet a local mom, Ronda, her youngest son, and her beautiful daughter Ella yesterday for lunch. Ella has been home for six months and turned four years old while they were in China. Ronda, I really enjoyed meeting you and your little ones and hearing all about your China trip experience. Ella is such a happy and friendly little girl and I can tell that she's a perfect fit for your family. I don't know how China does it, but they always seem to get it just right.

Well, everyone...keep those fingers and toes crossed for that 10 day referral batch. It's just the thing we need to lift our spirits right now.

Tiki Graduation Party...

My friend Christine's son, Colton, graduated from high school and we have been working on putting together a tiki themed party for him. The party was yesterday, and boy was it a BUSY day! We started out at 9:30am with a wake-up drink at Starbucks, then off to IKEA to pick-up some last minute party supplies.

By the time we got back to Christine's place, the tables and chairs had been delivered by the rental company and we were in full gear from that point forward. We spent the entire day building a tiki-bar, setting everything up, and doing the final food prep. By about 4pm, I was finally able to run home for a quick shower, get ready and head back over to help mix the rum punch and get the food ready to go out.

The party was a big success and it seemed like everyone had a good time. Everyone loved the video we made and our tiki-decor was a big hit.

Here's a little video so you can see what we did (if you have your computer volume turned on you can jam to a little Bob Marley)...